Dating a policeman advice
Police officers are able to problem solve quickly and don’t freeze or panic in emergency situations.
Police officers know which questions to ask — and listen carefully to the answers.
Recognize it is not anyone's fault, but just two people who were not meant to spend a lifetime together.
If you feel this person has a life they do not want to include you in and you've talked to them a couple of times about what you need, but are still met with resistance, get the clue that you are more into them than they are into you. The goal of a healthy functional relationship is interdependence where two people can have separate interests and hobbies, yet when they come together their life fits together.
Do they find solutions to life’s challenges or do they see the world as holding them back? Do they talk about people's good points or focus on other's faults?
Negative people are victims to life circumstances and over time will blame you for what is wrong in their life instead of seeing what they need to do to take charge of their fate.
However, our commonalities also bled over into our personalities, our approach to life, spiritual beliefs, work ethics, and morals.
In the early stages we also evaluated our differences to see if they worked together or would tear us apart. I help Mike stay organized and scheduled while he helps me to relax.